Thanks to the person that recommend that you spoke with me. Well, I'm sorry this has happened. If you tried stopping the argument and it doesn't work, then you either have to try to stop it in a different way, or leave it alone. Maybe you should sit with you mother separately, and ask her what's the reason for the argument. Let her know it's destroying the family. Do the same with your father. Then ask them both what would stop the fighting. And try your best to do what they both want if it benefits all of you. If one of them say divorce, tell them that's least likely to happen. If you chose to leave it alone. Get your siblings and yourself outdoor all the time. It will reduce worrying and, if the young ones see the adults fighting, they'll fight too. So get them busy. Your parents will soon realize you're not really home a lot and they'll start to miss your presence. When you get back home, they're going to question you. You should be firm when you answer, and tell them it's not healthy for us to witness what is taking place, and if you want us around more or cared enough you'd stop. I'm sorry your brother left and now it's probably all up to you if the children are much younger. But I hope that helped and message me anytime if you need anything and if it did or didn't work.
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