Dear Drew #8

This Dear Drew has been said so long now, but I couldn't come up with the right words to say.. I've gotten the words now. This person, didn't want his name blocked out..

 

Well, first you need to tell them how you feel. As long as they're all together in one room, then talk. Tell them you don't want the friendship to end, and explain how it's affecting you. Also, if they still continue on fighting, it means they didn't care what you had to say, and you should get new friends. If a friend doesn't wanna hear some good advice from their own friends, it means they don't got time to listen to you, because bsically, they do not care. Tell them you don't want them quitting, and that it hurts you to know they're all so far apart when they were buddies. If they were truly your friends, they'd understand. Whatever the reason was that started the war, they should all just forget about it, and just move on. You have to be the one to fix this problem, since you're the one being hurt in the end. Well, I hope that hepled! 

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Dear Drew #7

 

Ok, so basically, we've all be in this "not over you" situation after a rough break-up. We thought it would last, but it didn't. Getting over someone isn't the easiest thing to do. If he was cheating on you then he's definitely not worth being sprung over. And if he chose to move on, he clearly never really cared. It may have all been a lie, sadly. He was cheating on you with someone, and is still with that person. If they didn't know he had a girlfriend before, that can cause problems with them now. But the best thing to do, is not interfere with his recent relationship, because the hopes of you two ever being "just friends" can never happen. Moving on isn't really hard, it's all about your state of mind. If you tell yourself you miss him, obviously you'll start getting sad. If you chose to remove them from your thoughts, your life, it'll all get better. Stop hanging out with friends that constantly remind you of him, because, you will think of him. Then the depression rolls in again. Your feelings hasn't switched only because of jealousy towards the fact that he moved on. He wasn't worth it since he's been cheating from the start. So, the best thing is, remove him from your life. Just blank out any thoughts about him, tell your friends, you don't wanna hear his name anymore, and you'll be fine. Hopefully that helped! Message me and let me know! :D

Dear Drew #6

Thanks to the person that recommend that you spoke with me. Well, I'm sorry this has happened.  If you tried stopping the argument and it doesn't work,  then you either have to try to stop it in a different way, or leave it alone.  Maybe you should sit with you mother separately, and ask her what's the reason for the argument. Let her know it's destroying the family. Do the same with your father. Then ask them both what would stop the fighting. And try your best to do what they both want if it benefits all of you. If one of them say divorce, tell them that's least likely to happen.  If you chose to leave it alone. Get your siblings and yourself outdoor all the time. It will reduce worrying and, if the young ones see the adults fighting, they'll fight too. So get them busy. Your parents will soon realize you're not really home a lot and they'll start to miss your presence.  When you get back home, they're going to question you. You should be firm when you answer, and tell them it's not healthy for us to witness what is taking place, and if you want us around more or cared enough you'd stop. I'm sorry your brother left and now it's probably all up to you if the children are much younger.  But I hope that helped and message me anytime if  you need anything and if it did or didn't work. 

Dear Drew #5 Response

Glad to help! Would do it anytime, and I wish you well with everything in life! :) And hope the counseling goes excellent too! Take care! :D

Dear Drew #5

Okay guys, this one's serious, and it's reaching out to all the people, that happen to gain more weight than the "average" person. Just know, you're beautiful no matter which way you choose to be.

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Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, and colours! So if you disagree with someone because of their outer being, I suggest you go to hell, because everyone's beautiful in their own ways, and beauty is what's on the inside not the out. Also, most people that think they're "hot" have very nast attitudes, and ways about them which is ugly about them, that's ugly, not someone's appearance. However, overwight people, happen to be the most fun, happy, joyful people I've ever known in my life! You are you, whether you choose to walk around dressed as a kangaroo, if it makes you happy, then so be it! Because that's all about being you! You were made to stand out, not follow everyone, and eat on almond a day. That's crazy, lol. Feel happy in your skin, know you're beautiful, the mirror doesn't lie to you, just your mind sometimes, because of all the negative people around you, block them out from your thoughts, and know you're gorgeous, no matter what you look like, how you dress, how you talk, you're beautiful! And that's a fact! If you decide to lose weight, you're supported, as well as staying the way you are. Stand up for who you are, even if you stand alone. If you happen to not have friends for some strange reason, make friends with positive people, that will only bring you up, instead of down. You'll start to feel confident in yourself, and ignore what negative people have to say, God made everyone beautiful, and besides, you're healthy! Being healthy is excellent, some sick person, that's dying from being homeless, or hunger, would kill to be in your shoes, not saying this rudely, but, it's true. So enjoy yourself! Live your life the way you choose to, follow your own path! And know that you are BEAUTIFUL.
Alright guys, keep the messages coming! Send them here CLICK HERE  and I'll answer them on the blog!

Dear Drew #4

Lol, spreading the love? xD Awesome! Tell someone you love them today, whether it's a relative, friend, and give them a smile today! :)  Spread the love guys!!! ❤

Dear Drew #3

Who hasn't been in this situation before? Okay if the person is your friend, they somehow develop feelings for you just like you do towards them. So you shouldn't be afraid to ask him/her in situations like this. And of course there are signs if someone likes you, they don't want to be around anyone else and are always happy around you and can be themselves. This only works if you know the person personally.  If you don't know the person at all, and you saw them and liked them, that's different.  If that's the case speak to them politely and if they respond nicely and you become friends you can do the same thing I said above. Being afraid to approach someone to speak your mind is a terrible thing because you keep alot of locked up feelings to yourself and it can tear you down.  So the best thing to do, is tell them how you feel, because you never know if the person feels the same unless they show signs, and what's the worst thing they can say? "Sorry, I don't feel the same"? That little sentence isn't worth not knowing the possibility of it could, should or would happen. Never be afraid of taking the risk. Dive in and go for it! Hope that helped and keep the messages coming! Spread the word to your friends, if you need any advice! I'll try my best to help. Message my woozen on woozworld.  DrewHenderson

Dear Drew #2

Your colors are fine, maybe if you tried a shade or two lighter than the one you've chosen for your tan, and your eyes are pink, not trying to seem offensive, but maybe if you wore something different, a different hair? And wear nicer clothes with the colors, it'll be fine. You're not changing your look, because it's still you. Your colors, and everything! All you gotta do is try a better outfit. Using your colors, yes, but different outfits. And just change your eyes and/or your tan a little bit or even try changing your face to a different type, and change the hair colour. I'm trying my best to give advice without letting you have to remove the things you like abou Once you've tried this, message me when you start getting friend requests? :) And ps, I'd be your friend anyday.

(I added this picture after I fixed him up, and inserted it into the same post.)

With the help of me:

Response from the first Dear Drew!

Ok, I went online, and got a message from the person!

So glad to help though! Helping people worldwide, with different timezones is amazing O_o
So guys, if you're having problems, or need advice in any possible way, send me a message on Woozworld  DrewHenderson, title it Dear Drew, and make sure it has no filters, and I'll post the advice on the blog. I can't wait to help! :) I'll be posting more if you keep the messages coming, lol.

Dear Drew #1

Hello, person in need of advice. So basically, you have no time to yourself, with all the conflict going on at home, you can't study, because it's a distraction, and it's causing your grades to drop. You need to find any possible way of getting time away from them for a while. Go to a library, a friend's house, a cafe, or the park, and take your books with you. Study for at least 2 hours, during the week. You can have weekends with your family, if they're not happy with you being away all the time. Even if you are away and they disagree with it, your parents will give you the attention you need, so you can reach out to them, and they'd listen to what you have to say. At school, you can ask your teachers for extra help, (don't ask any creepy looking teacher) and they should be glad to help. Also, if you're ashamed of classmates watching you ask for extra classes, so you don't look like a nerd, ask after class, when everyone's already gone xD If your teachers aren't willing to help, ask the smartest kid in class, even if you don't like them for some particular reason to help you and become your tutor, and remember, education is the key to success and what you do today, reflects on your tomorrow. So, I hope that help, message me back if it helped you out! =) bye!

By the way, tons of thanks to Jaden for making me this awesome pic!